A Lesson from the Canopy
In my previous blog post, I shared my admiration for a towering mango tree on our farm—a majestic presence that stood beyond my reach, offering its fruits only when they chose to fall. You can read that reflection here: “Just Do It,” Said the Mango Tree: A Lesson in Letting Go.
This week, an unexpected lesson unfolded. Two villagers from rural Karnataka visited to assist with some demanding tasks on the farm. As we conversed, I mentioned the elusive mangoes high up in the tree, expressing my resignation at the impossibility of reaching them. Without hesitation, they responded, “No problem, we can do it.”
What followed was a display of agility and confidence. With a simple setup—a mango basket tied to a bamboo pole, a rope, and a bag—they devised a makeshift pulley system. One of them, with the rope secured around his waist, began to climb the tree. His movements were fluid and balanced, almost meditative. Within 45 minutes, they had harvested 90% of the mangoes, efficiently lowering them down using their improvised system.
The Fragility of Modern Comfort
Watching them, I was struck by a realization: our generation has become increasingly disconnected from such physical prowess and resilience. Many of us struggle with basic postures like sitting cross-legged or kneeling for extended periods. We’ve become cautious, often overanalyzing situations to the point of inaction. In contrast, these young men acted with confidence, drawing from experience and a willingness to take risks.
The Digital Age Dilemma
In today’s digital age, we’re constantly bombarded with curated glimpses into others’ lives. Social media platforms showcase achievements and milestones, often leading us to question our own worth and accomplishments. This perpetual comparison can erode our self-confidence and mental well-being. Alarmingly, studies have shown that young adults today report lower levels of happiness compared to previous generations. Factors such as social media influence, post-pandemic disruptions, and limited real-world interactions contribute to this decline.
Reclaiming Our Inner Strength
Yet, resilience is not an innate trait reserved for a select few; it’s a skill that can be nurtured. Engaging in physical activities, embracing challenges, and stepping out of our comfort zones can bolster our mental fortitude. The villagers’ approach to the mango tree wasn’t just about harvesting fruit; it was a testament to the power of action over hesitation. Their confidence stemmed from experience, yes, but also from a mindset that embraced challenges rather than shying away from them.
A Call to Action
As we navigate the complexities of modern life, perhaps it’s time to reconnect with the simplicity of action. To climb our own metaphorical mango trees, not with fear, but with determination and trust in our abilities.